Women Write Their Hearts Out on Love, Loss, Sex,
and Who Does the Dishes

TABLE OF CONTENTS

FROM SILVER TO GOLD

Fifty Years in the Bonds of Matrimony Anne Bernays.................................6

The Occasional Persistence of Love Marge Piercy......................................15

The Marriage of Lost Fathers Susan Dworkin.............................................24

A Great Wall Aimee Liu.........................................................................39

Koan Kathleen Aguero...........................................................................51

An Experiment in Improvisation Bharati Mukherjee....................................66

FROM STEEL TO CHINA

A Twenty-First Century Ritual Erica Jong..................................................84

Third Time Around:
Snapshots from at Long Last a Long-Term Marriage
Julia Alvarez..................91

The Finish Line Jean Trounstine.............................................................106

Mrs. Married Person Susan Cheever.........................................................118

In the Ink of my Blood Maria Hinojosa.......................................................127

18, 260 Breakfasts Eve LaPlante...............................................................137

The Two of Us Jennifer Heath.................................................................148

FROM SUGAR TO TIN

Gathered Elizabeth Graver.....................................................................158

First Person Plural Helen Fremont...........................................................172

Preserved in Salt:
How Emeril Live! And Egyptology Are Saving My Marriage

Liza Wieland.........................................................................................183

Murmurs Audrey Schulman.....................................................................196

My Husband, His Girlfriend, Her Husband, My Lover and Others
Hannah Pines........................................................................................207

Matching Luggage Karen Propp................................................................219

FROM PAPER TO WOOD

Being Mr. Packer ZZ Packer....................................................................235

Monogamy Meltdown Kamy Wicoff............................................................250

I’d Have To Be Even Crazier Than I Am to Screw This One Up
Meredith Maran....................................................................................262

Of Rivers and Love Diana Abu-Jaber.........................................................274

Marrying Out of History Nell Casey..........................................................285